Question by : Should I stay or should I leave him? His new “business” is tearing us apart.? I feel like Ive been looking at things like this all night, only he’s not abusive, or drunk, or cheating. The simple truth is we have been growing apart and his hobby/company is getting to be to much. We have been together for 8 years, we have a house and a life together, I care for him a lot and I know he cares for me…however it seems these days that love and caring may not be enough. Our wants and goals could not be more different, he has changed dramatically from the person I fell in love with and every day has become a struggle. We fight a lot and it seems to me it has hit its pinnacle since he started h ...>> The Post Continues Here! <<-